When we feel we are being judged by another, this is simply a mirror reflecting the judgment that we have within us and use to judge others. In the same way, that which we learn to forgive in others is what we will in turn be forgiven for.
That is why we shouldn’t shrink from people and situations that are uncomfortable for us. They are simply revealing to us where and how we should grow and when we embrace them we will slowly be able to free ourselves from the inner ties that keep us from reaching our full potential.
The Creator wants nothing of us except to see us acting as He would act. He would like to see us spending our moments caring for one another, loving one another. There’s so little of that on our planet, so it’s our job as conscious beings to strive every day to live with that level of awareness.