Finding Friends

Pay it Forward: Become a Supporter of the Work. Learn More

Main Menu

Events & Classes

Main Menu


Become a Member

Find more wisdom and practices to elevate your self, your life, and the people around you. From weekly articles and videos to live-streamed and in-Centre classes and events, there is a membership plan for everyone.

View Membership Plans
Featured Membership:
Onehouse Community
  • Benefits include:
  • All live-streamed classes
  • All in-Centre classes*
  • 10% discount in our bookstores*
  • And much more...
  • Join Today
  • *At participating locations. Restrictions apply.
Main Menu


Go even deeper into the wisdom of Kabbalah with personalized guidance and chart readings.
Free Consultation With a Teacher

Our dedicated instructors are here to help you navigate your spiritual journey.

Request Yours
Kabbalistic Astrology Chart Reading

Learning about our soul through an astrological chart helps to give more meaning and greater understanding to the experiences we face, the people we know, the work we do, and the forks in the road.

Book a Chart Reading
Personal Guidance – Kabbalah Centre Services

One-on-one personalized sessions with an instructor to delve deeply into an area that interests you or support where you need it most. Meetings span from relationships to tikkune to deep Zohar study, all customized especially for you.

Book a Guidance Session

Finding Friends

Marcus Weston
July 30, 2015
Like 1 Share Comments


Is there a section of the Zohar to help one attract more friends and/or be more likable? ~TH


Although many people might suggest very profound sections of the Zohar which resonate and lift the soul with relationship energy, before such a gift from “upstairs” can be had, there first needs to be a shift “downstairs.” Meaning, it’s not the Light’s desire that one does not attract more and better circles of friends. The issue is first found within a part of your nature that needs moving. Like the great book by Yehuda Berg suggests, God doesn’t create miracles, you do!

So what can you open emotionally, spiritually, and socially to allow the Light to mirror a greater environment of friends? And yes, the first question you rightly ask is what can you do to be more likeable? What makes you think you might not be? Where are you not making simple social efforts? Where are you expecting and getting disappointed? Where are you not giving and investing? What fears or insecurities does this all bring up? How can you give better energy with a purer heart?

In life, you get what you give. This may seem like a harsh truth, but this is actually THE solution. When you get real, you attract real friends. When you’re naturally happier, you might see some special, unique, divine thing within yourself and then within the people around you. Starting friendships take work, but keeping friendships takes even more work. So, if you ask and answer these questions, and then draw from this a particular consciousness, awareness of a blockage or desire, from there you can find the specific section of the Zohar to support this internal work and your personal process toward deepening relationships. Then as you delve in that appropriate section of Zohar, remember to ensure you’re physically manifesting actions to reflect this internal work and change on a DAILY basis. Most importantly, enjoy the process!