Published: December 30, 2013
Originally recorded: May 17, 2011

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Lesson Highlights

• Identifying the model for our life: being a victim or living a life beyond drama
• Anger: a reaction to our feeling of being wronged
• Three types of anger:
  1. Hasty and sudden: connect to the impulse for self preservation, occurs tormented or trapped
  2. Settled and deliberate: a reaction to perceived deliberate harm or unfair treatment
  3. Dispositional: relates to personal character traits like irritability
• Identifying the primary emotion that causes our anger: anger emerges when we feel fear, hurt, frustration or powerless
• The effects of anger on our body
• Holding people accountable is not the same as blaming them for how you feel
• Three ways to get out of victim mentality:
  1. Acting loyal
  2. Expressing anger
  3. Exit
• Giving away our power through blame
• Creating grievance stories: describing painful things we endure, but do not heal from
• Empathy and giving the benefit of the doubt
• Choosing what we worship
• The way we behave towards others is the way the Creator behaves towards us

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Lesson Description

In this lesson, Monica explains that the way we behave towards others is the way the Creator behaves towards us.

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